How To Treat A Woman On A Date: The Basics
briannebott:saithis:phantombacons:jmuffin:mastodonstorm: onesecatatime:mastodonstorm:skylarparker:sarahkristenn: (via anthonymichaelrojas)
- Do not let more than 1 day go by without contacting her
- Be on time
- Open her car door
- Help her put her coat on
- Hold the door for her to enter/leave an establishment first
- Pull her chair out for her in the restaurant
- Order for her (Note – this does not mean tell her what she’s going to have for dinner. Have a conversation about what she wants and then when the waiter comes, order for her.)
- At the end of your date, don’t drive off until she’s safely inside
It’s amazing how much of this would be considered creepy nowadays. :/
Not creepy. Absofuckingloutly mandatory. I notice when these things are not done. Who raised you?
Notice I didn’t say I thought it was creepy. Everyone I know would though, except for the nerdiest of us.
bolded part is such a fucking rude thing to say. Who raised you?
also, this list is all very polite and quaint, but mostly unnecessary in today’s society, and if you ordered for me i might actually be a little pissed off.
just sayin’.I think thats sweet - although with no.7 is not completely neccasary but I’d be okay with it. Alternatively you could just let her order first.
I do most of these.
I’d rather not number 7 thanks, other than that yeah cool, especially eight.
maybe i’m just weird then, everyone seems to be pretty cool with this list,
but most of these things would just make me feel uncomfortable.
all of this ’pulling her chair out for her’ and ‘opening the door for her’ and ‘helping her with her coat’ stuff… :/
I agree with you Jamiee. I would feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable if someone did this stuff on a first date. Maybe some of it a little later when we know each other better and I know he isn’t a skeez. But if anyone did #7 (unless we are actually ordering together) I would be a very unhappy girl.
